Charlene's Diary ♥

Destination - Maldives Island

2012-02-08T21:28:00.000-08:00

Lets talk about DESTINATION!

Honey Moon became a so called "culture" for all Just Married Couples!

Where have you been on your last Honey Moon?

Perhaps, whats your next plan?

ROME,Italy is in my wish list!
Hubby said my dream will come true one day!

So lets wait and see will it be my honey moon or just vacation! =)
** excited **

Anyway, I'm going to share a beautiful Island called Maldives..
Its actually quite popular and well-known with its nature beauty nowadays!

But there are couple of peoples still wondering where does it located?

I hope you can this post could be one of your reference!

** Above Maldives **

Situated in the southwest of Sri Lanka,

Maldives stretches 823 km from North to South and 130 km from east to west.

Noted:

GMT +5 (Maldives) | Malaysia & Brunei & Singapore GMT +8

Maldives Weather is determined to a large extent by the monsoon winds circulation.

Each year there are 2 monsoon seasons,

the Northeast monsoon "iruvai", which occurs during December to April

the Southwest monsoon "hulhangu", occurring during June to August.

The Male International Airport is located at the Hulhule Island and is well connected with both schedule and charter flights flying from all the major European and Asian countries.

Noted:

FLIGHT FARE Budget : BND1-1.4K *Subject to change*

Here's some airline reference and connecting flights info:

1. From BWN (Bandar Seri Begawan) - MLE (Maldives) (Transit at Singapore)

Airline : SQ - Singapore Airline
Flight No. : SQ181 (Operate by Silk Air) & SQ452 (Operate by Singapore Airline)
(DEPARTURES)
** BWN - SIN (Flight Time - 2hrs 10mins + Transit at SIN - 6hrs 10mins)
** SIN - MLE (Flight Time - 4hrs 30mins)

Total Travel Time : 12hrs 50mins

Flight No. : SQ451 (Operate by Singapore Airline ) & SQ182 (Operate by Silk Air )
(ARRIVAL)

** MLE - SIN (Flight Time - 4hrs 50mins + Transit at SIN - 6hrs 35mins)

** SIN - BWN (Flight Time - 2hrs 10mins)

Total Travel Time : 13hrs 35mins

2. From BWN (Bandar Seri Begawan) - MLE (Maldives) (Transit at Singapore)

Airline : BI - Brunei Air
Flight No. : BI423 (Operate by Brunei Air) & SQ462 (Operate by Singapore Airline)
(DEPARTURES)
** BWN - SIN (Flight Time - 2hrs 05mins + Transit at SIN - 13hrs 10mins)
** SIN - MLE (Flight Time - 4hrs 30mins)

Total Travel Time : 19hrs 45mins

Flight No. : SQ451 (Operate by Singapore Airline ) & BI422 (Operate by Brunei Air )
(ARRIVAL)

** MLE - SIN (Flight Time - 4hrs 50mins + Transit at SIN - 5hrs 35mins)

** SIN - BWN (Flight Time - 2hrs 10mins)

Total Travel Time : 12hrs 35mins

3. From BWN (Bandar Seri Begawan) - MLE (Maldives) (Transit at Kuala Lumpur)

Airline : MH - Malaysia Airline
Flight No. : MH731 (Operate by MAS) & MH177 (Operate by MAS)
(DEPARTURES)
** BWN - KUL (Flight Time - 2hrs 20mins + Transit at KUL - 1hrs 45mins)
** KUL - MLE (Flight Time - 4hrs 15mins)

Total Travel Time : 8hrs 20mins

Flight No. : MH176 (Operate by MAS) & MH730 (Operate by MAS)
(ARRIVAL)

** MLE - KUL (Flight Time - 4hrs 25mins + Transit at KUL - 7hrs 20mins)

** KUL - BWN (Flight Time - 2hrs 20mins)

Total Travel Time : 14hrs 05mins

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You can explore the rich underwater kingdom while snorkeling and diving in Maldives.

The resorts often offer short-term courses to teach you the tricks of this underground safari.

After your trip to Maldives, you will discover it richly treasured in the pages of your albums and deep in your memory.

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If you're seeking suitable accommodation in Maldives,

this blog may give you a hand!

CLICK HERE

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There are good numbers of beautiful, luxurious hotels and resorts in Male as well as other islands. Some of the resorts are built taking up entire islands.

You will get every luxury imaginable in here and excellent opportunities to travel and explore this wonder world of Maldives.

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Since the daily temperature of Maldives ranges from 30°4C to 25°4C,

so Maldives clothing vary from light cotton clothes to summer linens at times.

So when you visit Maldives, casual clothing is most normal for Maldives culture.

You should carry tee shirts, cotton shirts, slacks, light skirts, shorts, and beach wears, to enjoy Maldives-clothing in the warm Maldives climate. However, these clothes should be made of lightweight cotton or linen materials.

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No prior visa is required to enter the Republic of Maldives. Entry permit will be granted to visitors on arrival at designated ports of entry, based on the immigration requirements.

- Free 30 days Visa upon arrival for all visitors -

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Destination - Maldives Island

Self-Portrait 2012

2012-02-06T08:09:00.000-08:00

Model : Charlene Chai
Make Up Artist : Hafeezah Mahadi
Wardrobe : My Collection e-Boutique

Date : 06th February 2012
Venue : Berakas Recreational Park
Crew & Photographer : C Pin Aidil, Josh Galangham, Awang AFish, Adha Haji Abdullah, Lenny Irfan and many more!

The Author of this blog is having fun with all the photographer at Berakas Recreational Park..=')

Enjoy the photo sharing moment & stay tuned at My Page!

More to comeeeee..=')

>> Photo by Josh Galangham <<

>> the photos below is all about behind the scene..photo by my hubby~ <<

(",)

#iphotography by hubby

06122012

想念一个人的滋味

2012-02-03T22:50:00.000-08:00

想念一个人的滋味，

手机总是拿在手里，却还是颓然的放下，

一遍又一遍地拨着那几个熟透于心的阿拉伯数字；

你知道不知道，

想念一个人的滋味，

是当电话响起时，

总是会心慌意乱兴奋的不知所措，

看见来电显示时是那熟悉的号码时，更是兴奋不已，

满身的血液似乎在一瞬间涌上了脑海，满脸的红晕。

想念一个人的滋味，

总是呆坐在电脑前，对着屏幕发呆，

屏幕上的及身边现实的世界都已经消失不见了，

脑海里却一遍遍反复的想着，

此时此刻的你，在哪里？在干什么？

是不是也能体会到了这份思念？是不是一样也会心有灵犀而会心神不安？

想念一个人的滋味，

放下自己所有的矜持，听风起舞，让她飘向你，

带走我所有的思念给你，看见天空中飞翔的鸟儿，

多么希望自己能够插上翅膀，飞到你的身边，这就是我的快乐。

想念你的感觉是随着音乐声那种想念的滋味已经深深的深入到灵魂里；

想念一个人的滋味，

抛开对任何事物的感念，一心一意的只是想你。

想念一个人的滋味，

一个凝眸、一个微笑、一声温柔的低语、便让我所有的付出都觉得无怨无悔。

想念一个人的滋味，

是明明很生气很气恼，却在见到你的一瞬间都消失的无影无踪，

觉得心情似乎轻盈的可以跳起来，嘴里哼着歌，似乎世界都是自己的，

知道你就在我的心中，而我也在你心中的那份甜美。

04-02-2012

时间也许能改变一切，但却改变不了对你的思念！

2012年立春的时间

2012-02-03T05:41:00.000-08:00

2012年的立春时间是阳历2月4号18点40分（06:30pm）

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立春是24节气之首，所以古代民间都是在“立春”这一天过节，相当于现代的"春节"，

阴历正月初一称为"元旦"。

立春，是二十四节气之一，又称“打春”，“立”是“开始”的意思，中国以立春为春季的开始。

每年2月4日或5日太阳到达黄经315度时为立春，

《月令七十二候集解》：“正月节，立，建始也，立夏秋冬同。”

“立春”只能说春天来了，不能代表新年的第一天，

元旦（大年初一）才是新年的第一天。

中国古代“元旦”历来指的是农（夏、阴）历正月初一。

“元旦”的“元”，指开始，是第一的意思，凡数之始称为“元”；

“旦”，象形字，上面的“日”代表太阳，下面的“一”代表地平线。

“旦”即太阳从地平线上冉冉升起，象征一日的开始。

人们把“元”和“旦”两个字结合起来，就引申为新年开始的第一天。

03-02-2012

资料来源 ：http://baike.baidu.com/view/25702.htm

HOW TO ORGANIZE YOUR FOOTWEAR

2012-02-02T01:09:00.000-08:00

I'm a shoes lover!

Too much addicted to shoes especially high heels!

Unfortunately everyone Ignore me when I wear high-heels..

sobbbssss.. T.T

Anyway,back to the main point of this blog!

This is a sharing post regarding "HOW TO ORGANIZE YOUR FOOTWEAR" !!

>> you dont like to see this, don't you?? <<

I believe everyone has own method to keep your beloved footwear,

but when it comes to Urgent and Hurry, how can u identify and find your shoes in a minutes?

>> this is good..but barely see this in the current market <<

I'm going to Share my idea with you guys!

You don't need to buy any shoes organizer and so on..

as that will cost you much if you have alot of shoes to look after!!

First of all,
Do not dump your shoes box..

This always happened to alot of people when they purchase any footwear at overseas just to avoid overweight and so on waste space and bla bla bla..

If you don't mind, unfold it and organize your luggage bag carefully..

Its aint metal or glass nor other heavy material,so wont carry many weight!
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Shoes Box is always the beginning of caring your footwear!

Other than CHEAP,

LOVE the Earth is the main point!

Majority of the Shoes Box material can be Recycle, Go! Green and LOVE the WORLD!

The item below cost about BND2-3.00/pcs or RM5-6.00/pcs at department store!

why you need to spend your money just like that?

This is a BIG NO NO!! You might not realize you're polluting the world!!

Some say because this transparent so it is easy to find & locate where is it and bla bla blaaaaa~ Well, I'm here to say..

I have the other method to SAVE your money & this is even better!! =)

Check this out!

My Advice & Method:

1. Keep the Shoes Box

(I always keep 2-3pcs extra even though my shoes is broken, I ever encounter no FREE shoesbox during purchase)

2. Take a photo of my footwear

3. Print it out & Stick it on the box

(like the photo above)

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The BEST Footwear Organizer!

*Lovely*

This idea apply to all sort of things including accessories, bag and others!

[ D.I.Y ] Let's do it yourself too!

- Thank You for visiting Charlene's Diary -

www.charlenechai.com

02-02-2012

HOW TO ORGANIZE YOUR FOOTWEAR

初七 ~ 人日的来源

2012-01-28T08:50:00.000-08:00

也许是因为现今的生活开始现代化了，渐渐的使大部分的人始忘了我们华人的习俗…

趁着今天是“初七”，我找来了些资讯和大家分享～

正月初七是中国传统习俗中的“人日”，即“人类的生日”. 这在中国至少有两千年以上的历史。

中国民间称初七这天为“人日”“人胜节” 或“七元日”。

根据汉代东方朔《占书》记载，农历新年的首八天为人和不同畜牧作物的生日，依次序为“一鸡，二狗，三猪，四羊，五牛，六马，七人，八谷。

”晋朝董勋《答问礼俗说》记载：

“正月一日为鸡，二日为狗，三日为猪，四日为羊，五日为牛，六日为马，七日为人。”

故此，每年正月初一为鸡的生日，

初二为狗的生日，

初三为猪的生日，

初四为羊的生日，

初五为牛的生日，

初六为马的生日，

初七为人的生日，

初八为谷的生日，

接着，

初九为天的生日，

初十为地的生日。

传说女娲创造苍生，顺序造出了鸡狗猪羊牛马等动物，并于第七天造出人来，

故此初七为人的生日。

因此，汉民族认为，正月初七这一天是人类的生日，俗称“人日子”。

专家介绍说，

这一天，中国南方一些地区有“捞鱼生(类似吃生鱼片)” 的习俗，

寓意越捞越高、步步高升。

此外，一些地方在这天还有吃面条的习俗，寓意着用面条缠住岁月的双腿，取长寿之意。

此外，正月十七和正月二十七也被视为“人日子”。

正月初七，十七，二十七，此三天分别为小孩儿，大人和老人的“日子”，谁要过“日子”就要吃面条。

捞鱼生南方一些地区，

人们有在人日节“捞鱼生”的习俗，捞鱼生时，往往多人围满一座，

把鱼肉、配料与酱料倒在大盘里，大家站起身，挥动筷子，将鱼料捞动，

口中还要不断喊到：“捞啊！捞啊！发啊！发啊！”，

而且要越捞越高，以示 步步高升。

此外，传说中也有人用七种菜做成的羹，

在人日的时候食用，以此来取吉兆，并说此物可以除去邪气、医治百病。

各地物产不同，所用果菜不同，取意也有差别。

广东潮汕用芥菜、芥兰、韭菜、春菜、芹菜、蒜、厚瓣菜；

客家人用芹菜、蒜、葱、芫茜、韭菜加鱼、肉等；

台湾、福建用菠菜、芹菜、葱蒜、韭菜、芥菜、荠菜、白菜等。

其中芹菜和葱兆聪明，蒜兆精于算计，芥菜令人长寿，客家人喜用鱼一起煮，取食有余之意。

汕头市区的菜摊，在这一天将7件菜搭配好，论把算钱，不计斤两，人们乐意接受。

农村哪一户欠一两件菜，在地里采他人一二株菜凑成七件，没人说他是贼。

大家一起协力把华人的习俗流传到下一代吧～　

Ｔｈａｎｋ　Ｙｏｕ　！！　◕‿◕

Happy Birthday~　生日快乐～

My Melody & Kuromi

2012-01-24T01:43:00.000-08:00

~ A simple article to Introduce "My Melody" & "Kuromi" ~

Many people still confuse with My Melody(in pink) & Kuromi(in black)..

I'm here to clarify the difference..=))

My Melody is a girl rabbit who always wears a red or pink hood that also covers her ears. Her birthday is on January 18.

My Melody was first released in 1975, and born at the forest of Mariland.

She was the Little Red Riding Hood character in a version of the classic fairy tale featuring all animal characters. She also one of the family member of Sanrio, Japan!

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Kuromi is the rival of My Melody.

Her black hood with a pink skull motif just has ‘I rock!’ written all over it!

She is a white rabbit or imp-like creature, wearing a black jester's hat with a pink skull on the front and a black "devil" tail in the place of a normal rabbit's tail.

Kuromi's birthday is on October 31 (Halloween).

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今年龙年为什么有年30晚？

2012-01-21T18:58:00.000-08:00

今年2月份的农历只有腊月二十九，没有大年三十；而公历却比平年多了一天，即2月有29天。南京紫金山天文台的有关专家近日释疑。 

据介绍，出现这种情况是由于公历与我国传统农历的特点决定的。目前全球通用的公历年，长度为365天5小时48分46秒。为了使用方便就将365天作为公历平年的一年。这样累计4年就有23小时15分4秒，几乎接近一天的时间，如果积累400年就会多出97天来，久而久之会出现寒暑颠倒。惟一的解决办法是4年设一个闰年，每逢闰年就比平年增加1天。 

而我国数千年的传统农历的编排，既要考虑太阳又要兼顾月亮，为保证农历每月的第一天（初一）必须是朔日，所以大小月的安排并不固定。从今年1月7日腊月初一的朔日到2月5日正月初一的朔日恰逢小月，因此大年三十只好被“省略”了。据悉，公历2月份没有大年三十是一种正常现象。此种情形曾在1988年出现过，而下一次则要在2012年再出现。

资料来源 ：http://wenwen.soso.com/z/q115731569.htm

JOBLESS Life

2012-01-04T23:39:00.000-08:00

Hellooo 2012~
This is my fifth Jobless day of the Year! Don't bother how long I've quit,forget about the pass and look forward..=')

Currently beside spend my day in front of PC, I'll assists at My Collection Boutique! Its my simple show room for my e-Boutique! Well, too many competitor in Brunei! Sometimes the Business was so so only..But never give up and try my best to do it better~

2012 Diary Summary :
1st January 2012 - was the Soft Opening of MC Boutique! Having in house promotion to thanks to our Old & New Customer.

2nd January 2012 - 2nd day of Promotion! Seems need to do some advertisement to drag more customer..but thanks to my friend who had pay a visit. Its really fun & happy when everyone is there..=)

3rd January 2012 - My Rest Day! aint go to boutique while hubby is busy with his study! Only stay at home showered my puppy & do whatever I can do..And of course, Dinner with my Darling QQ and finally she is back to based! miss her damn much!! =')

4th January 2012 - Drive Darling QQ to Bandar and enjoy our date! She is one of my loyal customer! hehe~Had our high tea at Secret Recipe with mum & bros! Also read few bad news from FB, especially Kuching is flooding & the sibu top big news nowadays!

5th January 2012 - BLOGGING Mode ON =)

Now, I'm squeezing my mind and think about my future! hmmm.. after 18mths of flying, what should I do after this?

I'm a part of Job Hunter nowadays!

seeking for any job related to my interest..=')

Advance Birthday Present 2011

2011-12-05T05:21:00.000-08:00

Received my ADVANCE birthday present on 29th November 2011..

Millionnnn thanks to my Beloved Aunty Lena (my man's mother) for the kind & understanding..

Its time to say Goodbye to my Netbook & keep it in my own Museum..=))

18more days to my birthday..I'm so excited because me & my fiance is going for our very first Christmas Vacation to Singapore in conjunction of celebrating my birthday together!

winksssss..

still thinking what should I buy for myself & whats the surprise from him..^.*

Anyway,

Hope u guys have a wonderful Christmas Memory with the Love one!!

Diary of 11th November 2011

2011-11-13T01:17:00.001-08:00

11th November 2011 - FRIDAY
** Became one of the Memorable Date in my Life!

A priceless moment is when the person that you have fallen in love with, look into your eyes to tell you that they have fallen in love with you.. When we love, it isn't because the person's Perfect, it's because we learn to see an Imperfect Person Perfectly..~♥

this morning was the "special moment" when he "tie d knot" on my finger..

111111 意味着•• 你是我的唯一..~

♥.♥

Last but not least, I just want to make this Post simple & straight to the point..

Nothing words to be drop off..Cherish every single moment & Looking forward for a better future!

Thank you for all the best wishes from my dearest friend..Happiness Always..
Never forget to send my warmest appreciation for my dearest family & thank you my dear..

♥♥♥ You're so Special to me!! I Love You! (",) ♥♥♥

Love,

Charlene Chai

(13/11/2011)

Its all about ⓂⓄⓃⒺⓎ..~

2011-08-24T03:24:00.000-07:00

Welcome to my world, my baby ⓂⓄⓃⒺⓎ..

Hubby & Me bought this cute puppy on 19th August 2011 at Miri..

For the time being, haven train well on her! She is naughty and stubborn..=((

But she is LOVELY.. everyone sayang her so much..

what I can said, someone DOGS is lucky than Human..XD

Last but not least.. hope u enjoy the photos..

Regards,

Charlene cHai

Agoda (www.agoda.com)

2011-08-24T02:33:00.000-07:00

Seeking for suitable accomodation during your stay on your next Destination?

No Worries.. Spend couple of minutes to Read the information as below!

Everything will be solve! TRUST ME!! =))

** ABOUT Agoda **

>> First of all, lets CHECK Out the TOP 5 Reasons why do we need to Choose AGODA~ <<

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>> Type www.agoda.com or CLICK HERE to direct to the entire website <<

>> You can either type:

the destination you're going to

Pick any one from Agoda Top Destination~ <<

>> Select the Travel Period<<

>> First 1st to the entire Destination? You can check out at Agoda Customer Favorites in "Destination" <<

>> landmarks <<

(which come with different catagories such as bars, shops, market and so on)

This is a website to guide you to find a suitable & convenience places for you to stay over during your vacation! However, if you use your credit card to make a booking, Discount is given!

Cheers~

Hope this is useful & Enjoy your Trip!

Regards,

Charlene Chai

Life & Destiny, what do you think will come first?

2011-08-04T06:50:00.000-07:00

The 4th Day of August!

Sooner gonna farewell 2011 with Joy & Tears.. Seems like time is flying.. Age is flowing..

What've I did for the past few month? Seriously speaking, cant recall too much as I only knew that I am busy flying from north to south, from east to west! And the only rest day stay at home.. Travel during my leave! Its all about destination is my life!

While everyone is busy in and out their office, I'm busy flying here and there!

Somehow, this is the greatest moment in my life!

CABIN CREW - An airline pay you for travel with their passenger, taught u how to respond your immediate First Aid, to be a Fire Fighter during emergency, and yeah.. to be a person with lots of magic word through out your friend and colleagues!

I LOVE FLYING!!

But, i told myself gonna end everything after 2 years of service! another 10 months to go! Frankly, I've no idea what should I do when I resign unless you're going to try at the other airline & travel to different places again.. So, should I go or not? arghhhh.. been staying at Brunei for a year.. Although this is a PEACE & Quiet Country, but I Love here if compare to my own country! But still, once a Malaysian, always a Malaysian..

Holding a green IC here ain't GOOD! Damn it.. Everything have to pay! Ouchhh.. Some of the local here EVEN look down on foreigner! =((

But who care, I'll try to give myself a try! If the god let me to go, I'll definitively leave Brunei for couple years! Will be back perhaps? I've no clue.. Dont know what will happen in the future!

I should need a break.. I'm Lucky because I make all my DREAM come true for the past few years! I achieve my dream and everything I crave for.. Appreciate so much and Thanks to the God of hearing what I asked!

~Charlene@04-08-2011

也许还有也许…

2011-08-03T02:23:00.000-07:00

翻开一本不值得伤心的相册，确实很影响自己的心情…

虽然知道已经是过去…但是有多少人可以彻底的删除以往的记忆？

我没有特异功能，不能清楚明白你的心里还存放多少的记忆…

但是我知道，它一直都存在…

翻阅一张扑满爱的感言的一张卡片，让我不能够不告诉自己…

亲爱的，她真的很幸福…很幸福…

也许已经是过去…也许还有也许…

Veet In-Shower Removal Cream

2011-07-21T04:49:00.000-07:00

Bought a NEW Hair Remover Product..

It is Veet In-Shower Hair Remover Cream..

Only apply on your body for 1 minutes then u may go for shower,

stay for another 1-2 minutes and clean it by the sponge provide by the product itself..

The Result is Awesome..!!

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银色情人节（Silver Day）

2011-07-13T20:13:00.000-07:00

7月14日是银色情人节（silver Day），

是把你的意中人带回家给老爸老妈认识，或介绍给其他你所尊敬的长辈的好机会。

当然，这一天的全部开销，都由这些“可爱的长辈”买单，但是你最好先确定长辈对这个节日很熟悉。

银色情人节也是爱侣互赠银制礼品，饰物的日子。

传统习俗是用银戒订婚，所以今天你们也去买一对，戴在手上，作为甜蜜心情的见证。

 白玫瑰的花语：

 1、尊敬

 2、不被注意(不为人知)的美

 3、诚实

 4、纯纯的爱

 5、甘心为你付出所有

 6、高贵

 7、智慧

 8、纯洁、纯情、天真

 9、我足以与你相配

 一年里的12个情人节@Monthly Valentine Day:

 January - Diary Day 日记情人节

 February - Valentine’s Day 传统情人节

 March - White Day 白色情人节

April - Black Day 黑色情人节

 May - Yellow &Rose Day 玫瑰情人节

 June - Kiss Day 亲亲情人节

July - Silver Day 银色情人节

 August - Green Day 绿色情人节

 September - Music &Photo Day 相片情人节

 October - Wine Day 葡萄酒情人节

 November - Orange & Movie Day 电影情人节

 December - Hug Day 拥抱情人节

2011-06-19T19:35:00.000-07:00

>> Plain Rice with Black Bean Sardine <<

Dear Readers,

Welcome back to Charlene's Diary~

and Yeah I am back from my 10 days Leave and just finished my awesome Brunch today..

Its Simple and Nice..(",)

Well, its make me recall back my college life..

Long Long Timmmeeee agOooo，

过着很节省的日子…This is my meal for certain time to complete my hunger!

眼前看到自己喜欢的东西却不能拥有…

别人拥有的自己没有本事买…哈哈！

想到都没发觉到原来 Time Flies..~

从 “渴望”拥有到如今我差不多都 Dream Come True…

Thanks God..

I'm flying tonight to Jakarta and will be back tomorrow morning!

Suffer from Diarrhea for couple days..

Its KILLING me..!! >.<

Anyway, gonna stop my words here spend my day on cleaning house, kitchen, laundry etc..

BUT !!!!

I need a MAID to do my Job..

I need a driver to drive me to top up my groceries..

anyone? Hmmmm..

简简单单。快快乐乐

2011-03-07T12:34:00.000-08:00

一个人在外工作需要的是勇气和坚定…

我一直以来都很独立，只不过当一个人静下来的时候真的好孤单…

也许发现其实two is better than one吧~

人往往喜欢和命运作对…

因为知道命运掌握在自己的手中…所以不会让命运掌控自己…

是谁可以令自己开心…是什么情况自己发现自己比较快了那就是时候自己告诉自己那个就是最好的抉择了…

很常发现自己只要一个人静下来的时候就会想太多…

so miss BRUNEI.. Wanna go back..=(

今天是第3天工作…我的心还是没办法跟着我来到这里…

真没用…为什么总是看不开呢？

我要快乐…我要开心…

其实没那么难吧？

活在当下~

2011-03-03T07:21:00.000-08:00

相信每段情侣都有属于自己的爱情故事…

有人欢喜；有人忧…

有人说帅哥一定要配美女…

我说只要心地善良就是最美丽的！

曾经见过不同的爱情故事…

个个都很甜蜜；很完美…

其实我很清楚人比人比死人！

只要知道自己知道谁才是真心对自己的就可以了~

两个人在一起并不容易…

人海茫茫中，能遇到自己喜欢的人就是缘分！

有多少人可以被爱，有多少人可以爱别人？

您是否知道无论结局是如何，只要自己是幸福的就可以了…

不要在乎谁爱谁比较多…谁对谁比较好…

曾经有人告诉我，爱情不分年龄；身高不是问题…

有时候希望自己有种力量可以看穿另一半的想法，得到不一样的待遇…

人因了解而化疗所有的误会…

我并不完美，但是我相信50%的两个人可以创造不一样的火花…

给与单身的人，尽情享受目前的生活…

人没有十全十美…
哪怕有一天你若恋爱了也许会怀念单身的生活…

单身的生活就是可以那么无忧无虑…

没有牵挂，或许每当你做什么事都可以当机立断…

一旦恋爱了，一切将停止…原本的一个人变成两个人…

生活中多了一个人爱自己…疼自己…

如果每段恋爱就像一段拾起玻璃碎的过程，我应该被玻璃碎刺伤了不少次…

有人说因为前世因，才有今世果…有因才有果！

每位曾经在你生命中出现的人正是曾经在你前世欠下情的人…

他/她是来赎罪；而你就是命中注定来还罪的人…

感激曾经绊倒你的人…

因为他/她使你坚强…

若没有过去就不会有现在更没有未来！

不管2012是否是世界末日…

告诉自己珍惜现在；把握未来…

我们应该活在当下！尽情享受人生…

LOVE Life. LOVE Myself!

By,

Charlene C.

03032011

Thursday! Yiiipiiieee..

2011-03-02T17:27:00.000-08:00

a very good morning to everyone!

Its thursday! weekend is the best damn day for me but unfortunately I'm going outstation again on Saturday! Poor Day.. Anyhow, awaiting for another Thursday for the March because I gonna have longgg dayyyy in begawan after this 6 days working pattern!

I have been suffer for severe stomached for the past few hours!

Having my Thai Food for lunch & Indian Cruisine for Dinner with my hubby and winkwink~ =)

all're SPICY food..but taste damn great!

awwwwww... =.=

Well, am so excited to go back home tomorrow~ Finally, I'm back very soon.. Home sick all the way during my last dubai trip! miss daddy! miss mummy! and my fellow monkeys..=p

Will be looking forward for my next weekend and next next weekend on leave mood! owh lord.. its amazing that my leave been approved and thats the moment I can spend my time with my dearest..still planning about our vacation but its gonna be another part of lovely yet meaningful story in my life!

Time for me to end of my blog here and wishing everyone out there enjoy your weekend to the MaxXxxxxx..=D

他~就是我的 Mr Right!

2011-03-02T07:07:00.000-08:00

上篇说到…

《一个人生活》

这回想说说一些比较开心的事…

时间过得真快…

2011年就这么踏进了第三个月…回顾过去的几个月，感觉到人的思想真的可以因为时间的移动不断的改变~

还记得两个月前，

他问我我们究竟在一起多久了…

我回答他说…

"亲爱的，3个月罢了…"

但是，没料到他竟然问我不是3年吗？我笑着说我们认识对方也没那么久嘛…太夸张了！

他解释到，即使才3个月但是感觉上我们在一起就像3年…

我立刻抱他，这时懦弱的泪流下来了…

我们的未来希望是光明和幸福！

我的男人并不浪漫…

他不像一般的男朋友会有无比的惊喜…

但是却有种力量让我的心就那么的爱他…

他从来没有说过有多爱我…

只不过有时候必须垫高枕头仔细想想他为我做的一切其实不比我少…

有时候因为芝麻小事不想理他！

你们可以说我小气…而我却认为自己太笨了……

怎么可以那么忍心的看着自己爱的人那么伤心呢？

因为长时间的距离，我们相处得机会很少…

也许因为这样我们很珍惜彼此！我喜欢黏着他，即使没话题聊我也不想离开他…

告诉自己珍惜现在，把握未来…

很庆幸的说…我有一个很幸福的爱情故事…

无论路有多难走，我都不会轻易的放弃…直到我们没有办法再给对方幸福为止！

他…就是我的Mr. Right!

一个人生活…

2011-03-01T07:10:00.000-08:00

人人常说天意弄人…

这是真的…有时候就会莫名的被忽略，但是有时候却自己就是忽略人的那一个…

一个人为对方付出太多日子久了后会累的…

我不知道我可以付出到什么时候，

但是我知道自己其实开始累了！当我对你疯狂爱的时候，就是最轰轰烈烈的…

为了你什么都无所谓…

但是日子久了将变成一种“累”…

不知道为什么突然不想理会任何一个人…

上星期尝试一个人看戏，一个人逛街，一个人吃饭…感觉很不错…

我希望可以一个人旅行…告诉自己是时候保护自己了…

爱情不能当饭吃…对别人仁慈就是对自己耻辱…

每次为了小事大家都在伤感情…

我知道时间剩不多了…哪怕有一天你见到自己喜欢的人时候，会毫不犹豫地离开我…

其实自己在想，若有一天这真地发生了，自己该怎么办？

哭着把你留下来吗？我不知道…我希望自己可以潇洒的面对…

如果可以从新给我选择我并会走回一样的路…

对我来说，自己都是在浪费青春…爱情不分年龄…但是仔细想想人生有多少的十年？

等到你的男人失业稳重的时候，身边的人都开始组织幸福的家庭…

我的心很乱…

总觉得自己很快要回到一个人的生活了…是好事吗？

曾经的伤害和侮辱，可以换回永远的创伤…每当我想放弃的时候，

突然间某人开始了甜言蜜语哄了我…每当自己找到了坚强的理由，结果因为心软又变回了总是依靠男人的小女人…

在社会好几年了，但是又能够为自己做什么？

我并不是有钱的家庭长大，很多时候都得靠自己…有能力给家里少许的家用对我来说已经很好了…但是，偶尔还是会把自己辛苦赚回来的钱花在不应该花的地方…这是什么人生？

那个女人不希望自己有免费的车驾？

那个女人不希望自己的钱包定时有人给钱给自己花？

那个女人不希望可以在朋友面前炫耀自己有个爱自己的男朋友？

即时再有原则的女人，始终还是会成为男人背后的小女人！

我什么都没有…不想怨任何人，因为路是自己选的…自己没有想到那个纯粹的喜欢会变成现在如此的悲哀…

其实我很不开心…我已经没有办法告诉任何人我要的是什么了！

Think positively ; Cheer with smile!

2011-02-24T00:29:00.000-08:00

Thursday

- 4 more days to welcome March 2011 -

Everyone like to say time flies.. Yes its really do when you're having it with joy & fun..

It wasnt when you're awaiting for it..

few more hours to go am going to fly high to london via dubai..

just got amended to operate london flight again after this 6 days working trip!

how many time i need to endure the scary moment?

oh well,no doubt..flying life is awesome!

but now every london flight i will drop my tears before the flight!

6 days for me is super duper LONGGGG..!!!

Tears dry,dream off..

this is LIFE.. The complicated and reasonless one..

think with positive, cheer with smile!

我爱你…因为爱你；所以爱你

23rd Feb 2011

2011-02-22T18:21:00.000-08:00

23rd February 2011

Wednesday

Bandar Seri Begawan's National Day

Did you notice that Charlene's Diary is back to the OLD blog template? =D

Finally its back to normal! weeeeeeee... been struggle for an ages about this layout & I found it yesterday..

*happy-ing*

HTML killing me for couple day but it is so FUN when it done..

Sooner will introduce Dear Anak Brunei about a new website!

(stay tuned aightsss..=D)

aNYway,

This is a belated blog post regarding about my latest gathering with my both Crazy Buddy..

LLL & TJJ..

Lol.. been a while we didnt meet each other..

Everyone is busy with work and of course new life is began with their Man..(",)

While TJJ & CCC(me) is enjoying our sweet life, LLL is now in complicated mood which cause by herself! LMAO..

She deserve for a better life and I believe "there'll be something HOT & SPICY" coming up next for her.. teeeeehhheeee..^^

Last by not least,

am going back to the sky 2day & flying up up to United Arab Emirates & United Kingdom today..

6 days working trip is coming to my day to end my February in 2011..

so yeah, time flies!!! owh lordddddd...=D

Enjoy my photo session & ENCLOSE with my dearest's photo..

I will update my blog ASAP.. (",)

>> LLL ; TJJ ; CCC <<

>> Cheers for 3 Single Ladies <<

>> Fried Calamari <<

>> Chicken Nachos <<

>> Honey Lamb Chop <<

----------------------------------------------

>> Hubby & Me on 21st Feb 2011 <<

-tHe eND-

....Stay Tuned....

Life is what we called DESTINY =)

2011-02-20T17:27:00.000-08:00

tHe Greatest Surprised I had..

Expect the Unexpected is all from you.. I cant read your mind..

I have no idea what will happen next but YES, I feel your sincere through out the day!

Beside appreciate it with Million of Thanks,

I really clueless what can I do for you!

Dear K.Gan,

You're my sunshine who brighten up my day..

Although the 1st Valentine wasn't come with Romantic Candle Light Dinner & Big Bouquet of Roses, but the simple date we had together is the BEST memory ever!

Sooner I am outstation again..

a 6 Days working pattern is coming soon..

Here's the time to encourage myself to LOVE My Job more and more & say NO to Emo on every outstation..

Take a deep BREATHE & Say I CAN DO It,Charlene! =)

Everytime when holding his hand make me feel like I don't want to let it go..

Someone said its because we are still NEW in Love,

Someone said its because I think too much,

Someone said its because still Fresh,

Someone said its because I overlook in the relationship..

*but*

I said, I LOVE my New Life which include my Job & my Man & my Family & my living environment.. I think too much to had a better life & its wasn't fresh because Brunei is the place that I grew up, of course we're NEW in Love but we're sweeter than whoever NEW in Love!

LIFE is what we called Destiny..

Smile when its over & Cheers for the New Bright Day..

Again,

Thanks for d ROSES.. Simple & Sincere - 2 in 1..

我们没有夫妻相，但是我们又共同的傻相…

(a Funny but Lovely word I heard from him this morning..#xoxo)

-> My Man. My Life. Myself. My Family. My Job <-

London-Feb of Twenty-11

2011-02-16T11:31:00.000-08:00

16th February 2011

Berryyy GOOD Weather in London.. Approximately 9 degree Celsius..=D

Knew a NEW Junior China Crew since BI097 from BWN-LHR via DXB which we have to wor together about 6 days! She called Daianna..=)

We went out around 1400hrs local time here and been to Selfridges, Bond Street and had our lunch before we head to Primark SHOPPING..Weeeee..=D

I spend alot today even though I only have very short stay at outside..

The only things make me satisfied is my new skin care..

Time to say GOOD BYE to Kose & Shiseido..

tHe Clinique below cost 45pounds which mean around RM250+..

Will be going back to Dubai less than 12hours time..

Its 7:40pm local time here(GMT+0), 3:42am(GMT+8)..

Am going to bed now.. Damn exhausted..=X

Tomorrow is another dayyyy..Happy Chap Goh Meh dear Reader..

#xoxo

Valentine Day

2011-02-14T14:57:00.000-08:00

Charlene's Current Location is at Dubai *YES,Again* =.=

Just a random post about my VALENTINE DAY..

Its just like Normal & Nothing to be SPECIAL.. =.=

handmade scrapbook + red packet contains our secret + piggy khoo from him~

Thanks,Lofve! ILY~

Owh Lord...when I log in my FB moment ago,

saw a lot of friends posting their beautiful bouquet from the boyfriend/hubby..

awww! so sweet.. so yeah..I don't have any hence i am jealous-ing! LOL~

I knew that flowers wasnt important!

In fact, I did encounter some of the guy were telling me that its just wasting money to buy flowers for their soul mate!

BUTTTT!

Do you ever know that, a flower represent your sincere? LOL! REGRET?

Hahahaha.. its too late anyway! =.='''

Anyway, everyday could be the Valentine Day although there is no roses and the moment spending my time with the love one is meaningful among all..

but frankly Ladies expect to receive flower 3 times in a year..wondering do the guy ever noticed about that? =)

** 1st is Valentine Day **

** 2nd is Birthday **

**3rd is Anniversary Day **

Doesnt mean must be a big bouquet.. even a roses is enough for everything!

Just TRY!! =)

They don't need to be surprised cause they knew it is a must..

whatever..it is PAST TENSE already so just end my words with a warming Good Morning dear all.. am gonna rest now..

cheers for the chap goh meh few days later! stay tuned! =)

Don't let love be only a MEMORY..

2011-02-11T10:51:00.000-08:00

From now on,

I will remind myself that I'm always SINGLE but not longer Available..

No doubt, did you ever find TICK "In a Relationship" at the Marital Status column? Lol..

So yeah..

I never take it easy for the past few month and seriously it is so hurt sometime..

Although it is nothing..

But, actually there're something for me..

Always hope to be more perfect because I don't wanna lost anything..

When I recall every single moment about how I treat myself and another part,

I found that I'm so STUPID!

Silly for satisfying in order to satisfied a relationship..

When things happened, its become a FML condition..

so who care? Always waiting to expect the unexpected but too bad I get nothing in a return!

I know someone LOVE me.. but actually I ever get more than now!

Thats the reason why i never felt enough! I should get more from myself when I really LOVE myself more..am I right?

an unsecured r'ship lead me to the exit and its time for me to say yeah to myself..

Dear gentleman, if you found guilty..

do something on Valentine Day for your love one..

Don't let love be only a MEMORY..

无言…

2011-02-11T10:08:00.000-08:00

那一夜，我对自己说不要太在意…

那一夜，我对自己的一举一动感到万分莫名其妙…

那一夜，我对自己说如果第六感不要那么准确我是否会快乐？

那一夜，我对自己说哭过真的会好吗？

有些人，冥冥中就是只留在你身边直到expiry date…

有些人，冥冥中就是永远都会跟着你…

有些人，冥冥中跟你分开了却会回到你身边…

告诉自己，即使失去都要坚强…

从今以后，我只想做自己想做的事情…

只要不是属于背叛的话我都顾不了那么多…

同样的话，你要走不会留…

因为我一个人可以很开心…

27th Jan, twenty eleven Part II

2011-01-26T20:44:00.000-08:00

有时候真地很不了解女人…（虽然自己就是一个女人）

可以因为某某件事突然搞到自己no mood…

只知道自己的心情很差，但当别人问起自己怎么了却不知道…

男人会吗？

有人告诉我，女人天生就是爱胡思乱想，而男人就是属于easy come easy go的所以这种情况很少发生在男人的身上…

我整晚睡不好…今晚要去dubai了…

那种感觉回来搞到我的心情很差很差…上个月，他去了London一个月…

我们的唯一联络方式就是Internet…

应该是phoebia…只要想到要去dubai,london我的心就开始乱了…

很恐怖…不是我不要面对而是那种感觉真的会令我伤心…

加上早上又联络不到他…情况就跟上次一样，时间相差8个小时，我睡觉她起身…

我起身他又睡觉…我只想寸步不离的待在他身边…

原来联络不到你会让我那么心痛和心烦…

因为害怕失去所以才会那么想不开…

最后才知道原来是他不舒服所以没办法联络我…

是我想太多…每个人都这么说…

4-5 个月了…怎么那种烦恼开离不开我？

眼泪会在什么时候凝固？不再乱流下来？

o.0

when is the proper day for me to back to normal? I found myself is happy with my life before it start! But i will not give up because I care & I love!

Just For Della Ding-丁噹的精选 ♥♥

2011-01-26T15:17:00.000-08:00

All my Favorite Song by Della...

Owh Lord, She is just simple AMAZING & ♥ HeR Voice to the MaxXxxx..=D

(mostly are LIVE from 星光大道…)

>> 洋葱 <<

>> 你为什么说谎 <<

an unforgotten song for my LoFve! Lol~

>> 猜不透 <<

>> 我爱他 <<

>> 抒情的情歌…^^ <<

>> 与赖伟明的~最爱我的人伤我最深 <<

>> 飞机场的10:30 <<

>> 大海 <<

Enclosed with the most powerful song in the world!

wuhuuuuu..=D

>> I'll always recall Ming's serious face everytime when I listen to it <<

LOL !!

>> 超級星光大道 20110123 準決賽 Part 16/19 李佳薇 & 丁噹- What' s Up <<

This really GENG !!!

Enjoy & Thanks for stopping By..

Cheersss..(",)

Charlene Chai

27th January Twenty Eleven

27th Jan, twenty eleven (insomnia + emo)

2011-01-26T08:22:00.000-08:00

an extremely Fantastic Night I had..

Actually just simple activities but it make me feel good & enjoy!

Thank You,Dear!! happyyy-ing!

again, no doubt & this is the most 刻苦铭心 relationship for me..

am not going to compare with my previous relationship but to be frank he really impress me so much! I hope it would be my last and the only love story in my life till the world end!

Dear God, please bless me & pray for me dear friend! =)

I went out with hubby after his futsal training and cooked turnip cake for his dinner..

well, he got no complaint & I guess taste not that bad anyway.. =.=

After that back to Tutong with Hubby, Ming & Jing and enjoy sing K at Mimi's place together with Jer Ee & Ocean..

wuhuuuu.. I love sing sang song!

so nice man! ming is holding the BIGGEST Microphone(as above) while PK with Mimi..

HAHAHAHAHA!

Funny die me to mix around with them..

By the way, I received belated hand letter from Jing's Jakarta Trip(as below)..

Its the correct timing she gave it to me because am craving for some new accessories for CNY..^^

and yeah, I'm going to London Via Dubai tonight!

6days working pattern!

gonna missing hubby so much..=(

its 15minutes to 2 in the afternoon..

Its my 1st London via Dunbai working trip on 2011 after bck from dubai with hubby..

I'm tired & damn sleepy..

But i cant sleep well.. The bad feeling is back..

不知道怎么形容…

那种孤独的感觉回来了…人有点emo也很心烦…

同样的，6天其实过得很快而且我必须尽情享受到London shopping的moment…

但是，不知道为什么…

我开始开心不起来…很讨厌…很讨厌…

I read an article regarding why girls bite boy's lips..

its make sence thou and guess what.. I found something interesting on it..~

如果 2 0 1 2 年火山没喷、地没裂、楼没倒、家没淹、你还在、他还爱；

请在 2 0 1 3 年 1 月 4 日结婚吧。

因为这是千载难逢的 2 0 1 3 1 4 （爱你一生一世）。

如果你真心爱一个人、请把这篇文章信息转载到你的空间去！

不管你相不相信 ...

Nice & Meaningful right?

I don't expect to marry on that day.. but can I have an awesome engagement on the entire date instead?

well, I know its impossible but who care!

at least I HAVE A DREAM.. Lol..

26th Jan, twenty eleven

2011-01-26T01:12:00.000-08:00

Gong Xi Fa Cai..

Wishing you prosperity..

May Harmony bring wealth & Good Fortune in the New Year..=)

I got my very 1st red packet from aunty polly aka hubby's god mother last night..

weeeeeee..=D

She make some cookies for me as well..

Not bad see & Not bad eat.. hehe!

Anyway, am busy doing kueh mo at home again yesterday afternoon!

damn boring to do alone & don't think it look nice this time..

Cause i'm rushing to get everythings done!

awwww~

nOw on standby mood for london via dubai flight from 1700-0200..

guess I'll be safe tonight & fly tomorrow evening..

6 days working pattern *again*..

boringgggg.. but after that gonna enjoy my 7 days leave with friends & family & the Lofve one..

winkwink..^.*

That's it for today.. gonna continue watch my series now..

have fun & see ya!

-photo gallery-

>> From Aunty Polly <<

>> By Me~ <<

"BEFORE"

AFTER

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突然好想你…

2011-01-24T09:00:00.000-08:00

突然很感触…不知道为什么那么迟了还坚持写完这篇Blog..~

亲爱的，

你知道吗？我突然好想你…

虽然我们各自才回到自己家不到两个小时…

但是心里总是有种感觉很想现在就见到你…用力的抱着你紧紧地…不然你离开我的怀抱…

只可惜，一切只可以仅在幻想中…

想你去不想打扰你因为我爱你；愿意给你自由的空间…

你知道吗？你说过不分开…

真的做到吗？以后真的会像我们想象的那样吗？

经过前阵子另双方都很紧张的事情，让我领悟到我真的真的很爱你…

不知道为什么…有种说不出的感觉…

你不浪漫…你不会甜言蜜语也不会称赞我…更不会对我说点好听的话…

你那个让女朋友受不了的大男人主义让我有时候不知道你在想什么…

你知道吗？三个月就像三年…真地…其实我也那么认为~

我很庆幸和你在一起后不只多一个人爱我，还了很多人疼我…

感觉自己真的真的很幸福~哈哈！

你知道吗？突然想跟你说抱歉…

希望一切不会太迟…我不是故意为了一点小事唠叨你…

只因为心疼你的钱所以我觉得我们吃普通且简单就好…

但是，我想通了…

好吧，傻瓜~

就偶尔让你破费一次，让我们像european movie那样一起到餐厅切lamb chop 或者 steak 吧~

嘻嘻…我记得我们第一次一起到餐厅吃排就是在我们在一第31天~！

时间过得真快…转眼就要过年了…同样的，情人节要到咯…

我不晓得会是怎么样的情人节因为，也许我的工作关系我陪不到你…

你知道吗？我很珍惜我们在一起的分分秒秒…

虽然偶尔会耍脾气…但是这种沟通方式让我觉得我们更接近彼此…

谢谢你的爱…我知道其实你并不好受…

我带给你压力了是吗？你能接受我的抱歉吗？

但是我很肯定，我还会再犯所以我不想答应你我以后不跟你吵了…blerh...=p

你知道吗？我喜欢静静的看你…

哪怕我们没话题聊…那种莫名的感觉让我不发解释为什么自己可以那么变态…

你知道吗？对我来说，你最浪漫的时候就是送我的生日卡和礼物…

亲爱的，我爱你…那段好笑又浪漫的举动除了你的怪气头脑之外应该没人想到了吧？

哈哈…

无论如何，

我必须多劝自己少钻牛角尖…既然事实是这样何必为了过去那么伤自己呢？

“喜”…“怒”…“哀”…“乐”

2011-01-22T21:15:00.000-08:00

有人说雨后的彩虹是很美丽的…有人说傍晚的日落比任何时候还要耀眼…

而我却认为只要活着就是漂亮…

时间过得真快，

转眼头尾不到两个星期就要过年了…

今年是兔年…很快的明年就是我属龙的年份…传说2012是世界末日…你认为呢？

仔细想想过去的点点滴滴快要慢慢的消失在我的脑海…

并不是我可以去遗忘，而是我的记忆因为现今的生活的方式占据了大部分的空间…

身边的朋友多半都开始工作了…每个都在为事业奔波，只为了以后可以过更好的生活…

结婚的结婚… 工作的工作… 照顾孩子的就忙着在家做家庭主妇… 好羡慕那些已成了父母亲的朋友…

有时候真的想一个人静静地远离现实生活，到一个只有自己没有别人的地方好好的想想…

青春会待多久…时间既然不等人，那么我们又可以在有限的时间怎么完成任务呢？

我昨晚做了一场梦…自己被梦弄哭了…好可怕…

有人告诉我，梦和现实是不一样的…是安慰我还是事实呢？

“你快乐吗？” 有时候我真的这样问自己是否快乐…

无可否认，人类不是每天都没烦恼…再有钱的人也会因为某些原因烦恼这个，烦恼那个…

我没钱，所以为钱烦…

钱人的人，也会担心有天会没钱…

人生不就是…“喜”…“怒”…“哀”…“乐”… 吗？

开心的时间永远过得最快的…我们没办法控制时间更别期望时间可以为我们做些什么…

要就好好想想自己可以带给时间什么…

女朋友和老婆的分别

2011-01-22T19:18:00.000-08:00

不要交個女朋友就叫老婆

女朋友和老婆是很有區別的

不要交個女朋友就叫老婆

真的遇到可以做老婆的人

那麼　一定要好好珍惜~~~

女朋友：半夜會找你訴苦，不耐煩的話會控告你【重色輕友】

老婆：半夜看你在打遊戲會生氣的罵你

女朋友：她會找你出去玩，然後敲詐你請客吃飯

老婆：她會擔心你這個月的生活費能不能堅持到最後，出去吃飯的時候不舍得吃太貴的東西

女朋友：在你生病時，會發個短消息安慰你，然後自己出去玩

老婆：在你生病時，她會陪在你身邊，嘮叨著你按時吃藥，多喝水

女朋友：她無所謂你的好壞，你的一切缺點她都可以容忍，因為不在意

老婆：她會對你這個不滿意，對你那個看不順眼，因為你是她最愛的人，所以希望你越來越棒

女朋友：她什麼事情都會支持著你，只要你高興

老婆：她會站在你的角度考慮得失，但你會覺得她很小氣

女朋友：她會說和你在一起很快樂

老婆：她希望讓你感到幸福和快樂

女朋友：她不在意你的生活細節，只要你和她出門的時候穿的幹淨就可以

老婆：她會註意你的一舉一動，關心你床底下、椅子上有多少雙襪子沒有洗

女朋友：她會要你陪她吃飯，逛街，看電影

老婆：她也會要你陪她吃飯，逛街，看電影，可她不介意是什麼餐館

女朋友：她不在意你去做什麼，和什麼人交往

老婆：她很在意你做什麼，和什麼人交往，特別是和別的女孩子交往，甚至會吃醋發脾氣

女朋友：她只有想到現在

老婆：她已經規劃將來，想往著你們的幸福

女朋友：我將來會給你幸福，現在我不能天天給你開心，但我可以做到不會讓你寂寞和孤獨

老婆：我只能保證我不會先提出離婚

女朋友：她們會說，我喜歡你

老婆：她會說，我愛你

January, twenty-eleven

2011-01-21T21:00:00.000-08:00

22 January 2011

Saturday - Sunny

:+:+: Wish List for 2011 & The Annual Plan :+:+:

First of all, the only things I need is a Desktop computer..

I don't need a high spec PC but in order to complete my task easily,

I just WANT it to be efficiency..

I went to Miri yesterday..

drop by college about half an hour to Register my HND course..

I cant make my decision whether I gonna take HND in Human Resource Management or Marketing.. but I plan to get at the same time..

Anyhow, I knew that the tougher moment will come to my life soon..

hope all these can pass my time easily..

you know what.. Everything is just like a dream..

My ambition is to become a mannequin, a air hostess & once I confirmed my major during college life, i want to become a HR Executive!

owh yeah.. everything i can it come TRUE!

Thanks god.. am a flight attendant who work in Royal Brunei Airline for the past 7 months..

I love flying but I hate it sometime due to certain reason..

I been to Singapore, London, Dubai, Auckland, Brisbane, Jeddah, Manila and so on..

RBA will commence the flying route to Melbourne on 31st March 2011..

I LOVE Singapore, London, Brisbane & Auckland for the time being..=p

the first month of 2011 gonna end very soon..

what have I did for the past 21 days?

Time flies as usual.. everyone is busy with works & studies..

However, I'm enjoying my leave this few days during nothing..

my next flight will be Dubai & London again before my CNY leave!

Last but not lease, enclose my post with my latest photoss..

thank you for visiting Charlene's Diary~

Photo taken at Bintang Mega Mall, 22 January 2011 - MIRI Trip

(bad scene in my mind for the trip, however, my LIFE Is awesome now.. I DONT CARE About others..)

Monday Blueeeee..=p

2011-01-16T18:31:00.000-08:00

why is it BLUE? lolss..

MONDAY is a berrrryyy bad day for everyone..

especially for those who have to wake up in the early morning after enjoying their long weekend.. huhu..~ ^^

I don't have fix working day.. while everyone have family day on every Sunday,I might flying around in the sky.. sobsob! aM on stand by todayyy..feel bad because have to 101% focus on my phone..0800-1800 (10 hours) yet it only past 3 hours right now..

awwwwww.. boringgggg nahhhhhh..=X

been cleaning my room & finished my laundry already~

my dear busy with the school activities todayyyy..

I should not kacau kacau him! =p

soooooo..tell me what should I do in the afternoon?

weeeee.. look at the photo below~I've spend my day to make the CNY's kueh mo..

but tooo bad..

I'll have to carry on on another day to make the new set for the chinese new year..Thanks to my few "monkey" siblings who had finished it early.. Lolssss..

>> tHe eNd <<

BB Cream, Part II

2011-01-16T02:21:00.000-08:00

Dear Reader,

If you've visit Charlene's Diary previous blog, you might know that the Latest Beauty Post is about "BB Cream".. No worries If you're lost, here's a fast link for you to click on it and review about the post!

BB Cream by www.charlenechai.com

Last but not least, am going to share another type of BB Cream which can present a flawless & nature skin tone.. Its good for me and Highly Recommend to everyone.. tHe BEST BB Cream ever in my Life after I try it..

>> Skin79 Diamond Series Collection <<

>> Skin79 Diamond BB Cream <<

>> SPF 25 ++ <<

** suitable for all skin type, I'm sensitive + oily skin..**

Skin79 is Originally from Korea & Its quite Famous in the current market..

It cost BND39.90 in Brunei & and you can get it at either 1st floor of The Mall or Seri Qlap Mall..

Various type of Skin79 products can be found there..

Get all your Best Special Offer once you sign up to be a Skin79 VIP Club Member..~

For further inquiries, Log on : Skin79

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* same information from the previous post, just for you to review *

General Product Features and Benefits

* Produces a very natural, "no makeup look"

* Provides perfect coverage like a foundation would but since it's not as thick, it doesn't clog the pores

* Works pretty much like a tinted moisturizer

* Conceals all types of pigmentation, discoloration, acne and other blemishes

* Has healing properties that soften, smoothen and refine skin

* Encourages skin regeneration to create and maintain youthful skin

* Contains UV Protection for healthy skin (SPF levels differ for each brand/product)

* Anti-wrinkle and skin-lightening benefits (available for some variants)

Regards,

Charlene Chai

16 January 2011

14 Jan 2011

2011-01-14T07:17:00.000-08:00

Life is full with Tears & Joyyy..

click "Like" if u agree with it! LOL.. =p

Here you go~

Welcome back to Charlene's Diary..

Its only less than 1 month to welcome the year of Rabbit 2011..

have u got your new year NEW Clothes yet?

owh yeahh.. I did.. but only one Piece!

I'm serious thou.. I only bought myself a dress for d 1st day of CNY..

Who care if u didnt wear NEW apparel during CNY wor.. as long as u feel comfort then okay alrd..

am I right? =)

Anyway, I'm LUCKY that I'm safe for 2 days standby.. hence I hv more time to had dwonderful brunei trip with Lofve & his friends..

been staying at Empire Hotel with 7 tutong-an for2 days 1 night..Xixi..=D

swimming, kayak-ing, walking & patto..~

LOL..!! Its fun.. Its awesome.. Its so yeahhh..

Nothing much to write here..Hectic week I got..

I encounter hard breathing recently & dizzy all the time!

gonna sleep early & visit doctor in the early morning.. oucccchhhh..

SUFFER !!!

But i will never forget to update my blog whenever I'm free.. beside am Hunting for NEW Theme & more public topic to share..

anyhow, a semi pro camera is my next target now..

G12, anyone? =D

感情的东西真的很化学哦！

2010-12-28T02:37:00.000-08:00

我原来是那么的容易受影响…自己的头脑总是因为身边的任何事物不断的在变动…

真地很想知道自己什么时候可以看开点…

今天听到一位朋友说她自己很要好的朋友的故事…

内容就是在说，那个女生和男朋友分手了~

很好奇地问问…原来是因为男人变心了！

莫名其妙…很难想象一个整天贴在你身边，偶尔会告诉你他爱你的人就这样离开了自己…

感情的东西真的很化学哦?

无可否认的就是我知道自己太投入了…

确实因为对方改变得太多了…并不是改变自己的性格，我依然是我自己…

只是行动上的配合和礼让足以证明自己的爱其实并不少…

所以很相信当那天的到来我应该会上得很重吧？

不知道为什么，这两天总是不断地重复“不说分手好不好？”…

总觉得听了过后自己蛮舒服的，也许是因为它地表我的心情吧…

有多少爱能重来？有多少人愿意等待？

在缺乏安全感之下，我发现原来自己要的是什么…

为了不让自己受伤害，我可以选择自己离开吗？

爱我的人和我爱的人得到的是不一样的待遇…

我怕我会伤害某个人…而且期间也说了好几次好不可以爱上我…

不是我们相见恨晚，而是命中注定我们这迟来的相遇…

祝福你…

random post! just bcz im too BORING!

2010-12-20T23:54:00.001-08:00

21st December 2010

Tuesday

Current Location : Jeddah, Kingdom of Saudi Arabia

Hello dear Readers,

welcome to Charlene's Diary once again..

December is a Happiest Month for me..

Because I am a Baby Capricorn who born on 23rd December..

Anyway, Christmas is at the corner, what's your plan?

Well well well..

I've no plan! now busy squeezing my mind to get a Christmas Gift for him!

Actually I've decide what to buy already..

Just wondering is he really need it or not.. 0.0

Its alright! I'll figure about it..

I'm countdown to leave this boring place!

Going back home tomorrow to celebrate dong zhi with family!

Family Reunion Dinner make me feel warm and happiness~

The day after is mummy's "shou nan r".. Lol!

then Christmas Eve & Christmas Day & Boxing Day(applied at overseas) =p

I guess after this Jeddah working trip, time really flies..

Hubby is at Barcelona now.. thanks god the hotel provide internet access which can bring us connect together and do enjoy viber with him before I off to bed!

But still... I do miss him Lotssss..!! awww~

Tooo bad lor.. 1st year birthday celebration cant gather together!

Bad man..=p

Hmmm.. I notice alot of friends were married and apart of them become Mummy or Daddy already..

I'm happy to see that! Huhu~

Used to have an early marriage plan before, I love Babyyy.. I wish to have my own Family..

Friends says that I'm too stupid to end up my Freedom in the early age! but who care? =p

Now d dream is getting Far & Far..

I'll be appreciate if I can kahwin before 27years old! but still, too late & old for me!

hehehehehe..

Why cant I become a Young Mama?

Okayssss.. I know what u trying to say! d ability of feeding up a children aint easy!

I believe one day when U really have this kind of life,

u'll definitely FIGHT for it! don't you?

Lofve You, my dear~

2010-12-17T16:44:00.000-08:00

18th December 2010

Saturday

Everyone is excited during weekend.. I think I should be happy as well..

I've straighten my hair last night.. Welcome myself to the easy hairstyle life..My hair is damn Longgggg...=D

Well, its gonna be hard time for me after this as I couldn't contact with my boy for 6days!

Today is the day he off to Spain from London.. 6days back pack trip with his cousin & friends.. am going to Jeddah tomorrow hence I've to back to Brunei facing d stupid apartment alrd..

Hate LONELY! But I'm not alone like what he ever told me.. Just a day without him seems like meaningless..chill la,charlene! =)

Don't keep on telling me LOVE IS NOT EVERYTHING.. I'll not die because of LOVE. But for the time being I willing to make an effort in order to have a better Love Story for each other! I hate arguing.. I Cherish Him & Cherish our Love.. Everything is worth for me!

For those who still gossip about me you may STOP it as I told u I've a very good Life.. My man love me and I love him.. I give away my freedom because I found someone which I can rely on.. You earn nothing beside wasting your saliva!

the moment I cut off out Tango, i feel sad.. Sad because we gonna lost contact for 6 days! till my birthday.............

what a bad memory in my Life..

If you ask me what I want for my birthday, I will said I WANT YOU.. But it will not come true! Sorryyyy, I'm just too selfish..=(

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Dear, time will prove my love to you & cement my place in your heart!

True Love can bear the pain and the longtitude of waiting even it takes forever! we're always Link with each other even we're apart! Cheeerrrssss.. Lofve You..(",)

..:::♥ HaNdiCraFT Manicure & Pedicure

2010-12-08T00:24:00.000-08:00

After a long consideration,

I've decide to learn manicure & pedicure instead of study!

To have a bright future,

I will give up my current job and I believe this job would give myself more satisfaction in my Life but not only for me & the person surrounding me including my client..

Although I'm not good in Creativity & Art,

but I willing to learn.. Because this is my interest!

In fact, I am planning to continue my Degree after Chinese New Year 2011,

but actually I dislike to stay at office.. Feel bored to facing the computer & document all day long!

I prefer to interacting with people and do more outdoor activity!

How can an Active person hide themselves in the room more than 8hrs?

It doesn't make sense unless he/she is sleeping for the moment! LOL~

And yeah..

the new Target change everything! am doing research about this and might started to have a short basic class next year!

God Bless Me.. =)

heart pain!

2010-12-07T18:16:00.000-08:00

我不明白那么爱你到底是为了什么？只能够怪自己够犯贱吧？*lame excuses*

男人永远不会了解女人的心~

只会说是女人想太多…您可知道什么令女人那么看不开吗？

就是安全感和依赖…

也许吧…

是自己的错，感情放得太重了…

才会一次又一次的伤心…

当你对我说我不需要告诉你我在哭，因为不是你叫的时候，

我的心碎了~

我哭是因为思念你…不是故意要说给你听…

可是换回来的却是这么难听的话！

男人，你可不可以对我好一点？

女人会在第一时间联络自己的男人因为她知道他会担心！

那么男人呢？

一直抓紧电话只希望你可以给我一通平安的电话…

哪怕是信息我也不介意~

很遗憾的竟然是在Facebook信息我…

收到信息的当时其实又气又恨…为什么我不是第一时间收到？

16个小时的飞机令我担心到不得了…

第一次让你离开自己…很不习惯！

虽然是由27days，

但是自己的心真的很挂念你~

以往都是工作几天后就可以见到你了…而现在却为了不想太多，一放假就跑回家逃避自己的心情…

我相信自己很快会放下了…

因为伤心的话一句就够了！听了那番话后，我收起了眼泪告诉自己不值得！

那么想你又怎样？

你永远不会理解…做最坏的打算就是大家分手后我会流泪吗？

控制了自己的感情…

为了你我学会宽恕…每当不好听的话从你口中说了出来我只好静静！

只因为我爱你…不想吵架伤感情！

但是人是会累的~

随缘…我已经不想再伤心了~

Please forgive me.. I know I'm annoying..

Have fun with your pleasant trip!

Take care~

a LOVE Letter

2010-12-05T19:38:00.000-08:00

06 December 2010

Monday

Just reach home about 10 minutes! Went through a long weekend date with him and make me gonna miss him damn much after this! He is leaving tonight to UK for 4weeks! Even though we still can meet after that but I've no idea how should I pass my time in this 27days~

LOVE is not everything, *i know*..Friends & Family need me, * i know*..

But when you really Love someone, You'll rather keep it at your side as much as you can! and Trying to protect it to the max. Thats the reason why, I've idea to drop my words here today!

Will you drop your tears when you really miss someone?

YES, I do.. this is what I'm doing now.. T.T

Please forgive about my weakness, because I'm Capricorn! I don't want to lost anything when I really found what I want and I willing to change everything just because of YOU..

Hubby,

You're my Passion, my Life & my Love..~

Never ask why I Love You, Just accept that I'll do for my Rest of Live!

Take my Love, Use my SOUL, Don't break my HEART & Hold My HAND Forever! (",)

Can you actually feel my heart is beating when we dismiss? Can you actually know how much I afraid of the moment to farewell? I'm sorry.. I'm a selfish person! This is DESTINY for us to love each other, thats the opportunities for me to serve you right! Sometime I realize I'm just too over till you might feel annoying!

Because of my job, I want to let you feel secure..

Because of my job, I must make sure You're not ALONE when I am not around..

I've a Great Night with you..

I can feel your Love when You hug me tightly..

For YOU, I will..

Like what you told me before~

If we really LOVE Someone,

no matter how far he/she is, we'll WAIT..!!

No matter how much I miss You,

I'll be patient..

Hope you enjoy your trip! Safe flight later & See you soon..(",)

Love,

BB Cream

2010-12-05T06:53:00.000-08:00

>> Bio Essence BB Cream SPF25 - BND33.80 <<

p/s : Brunei Guardian on SALES now..

For your information,

this is the third BB Cream in my Life..

I've ever try Taiwan Shills & another one which I can't remember what's the name already..=)

I had try one time just now..

the result is amazing even I only apply a little bit..

Look flawless & smooth..

I'm here to recommend to everyone.. regardless MALE or FEMALE..=p

Besides, there're various brand which is very famous in the market.

Example: Skin79, Missha, Skin Food, The Face Shop, Hanskin, Laneige, Silky Girl and many more.

Different skin might experience the different result.. However,any idea what is BB Cream and Why it is so famous nowadays?

BB Cream stands for Blemish Balm and dermatologists initially used it to help laser surgery patients protect, soothe and regenerate their highly sensitive skin while also providing good coverage for post-laser scars and redness.

It provides coverage just like a foundation, but instead of clogging pores and damaging the skin,
it tightens the pores and help improve skin complexion.

BB CREAM =

Base

Foundation

Concealer

(Natural Makeup)

Sunblock

Moisturizer

Oil Control

Healing Properties

(Skin Regeneration, Pore Tightening, Skin Toning)

Optional Feature

(Anti-Wrinkle/Brightening/Whitening)

General Product Features and Benefits

* Produces a very natural, "no makeup look"

* Provides perfect coverage like a foundation would but since it's not as thick, it doesn't clog the pores

* Works pretty much like a tinted moisturizer

* Conceals all types of pigmentation, discoloration, acne and other blemishes

* Has healing properties that soften, smoothen and refine skin

* Encourages skin regeneration to create and maintain youthful skin

* Contains UV Protection for healthy skin (SPF levels differ for each brand/product)

* Anti-wrinkle and skin-lightening benefits (available for some variants)

You're welcome to drop your precious comment to share your experience..(",)

Regards,

Charlene Chai

05 December 2010

a bLog post with less than 50 words!

2010-11-25T02:05:00.000-08:00

如果这都不算爱；我有什么好悲哀？

总觉得怎么追都追不上… 有时候现实和梦里差太多了…

亲爱的~杜 You *love* Me?

NEW Look for 2010 Part II

2010-11-21T05:53:00.000-08:00

[[[ WAVYY v.s. STRAIGHT ]]]

~ 21st November 2010 ~

>> Wavyyy *current* <<

>> Straighten *temporary* <<

HERE I am again..

Nothing much to write for this blog..

Just wanted to share my LATEST Photo regarding my new hair

(color & straighten@temporary)..

My hair beryyyy LONG already...

I Love it to the Maxxx..

wuhuuuu.. =)

Stay Tuned @ www.charlenechai.com

-Thank You-

My aDvance B'day Present ♥

2010-11-20T07:51:00.000-08:00

** am not SHOWING Off or what so ever.. **

You May Leave my Site if you think so and I've my RIGHT to post whatever I wish & I Like at my website..

Just a Random Post & I just wanted to share something NEW today..

Thanks For d Visit yooo..^^

Photo Taken by my NK 5800..^^

Photo Taken by my hubby's iPhone 4..

20th November 2010

Raining Saturday

Finallyyyyy...

I make my DREAM Come True again.. ^.*

Promise to get myself an iPhone 4 for my 22nd birthday..

I manage to make it..

Gonna start new Savings after this.. Anyway, iPhone really Nice to Use..

昨天晚上突然来电结果今天就去买了……

女人真的很善变~ (",)

one of the Desire come true and 2 more to go..

I *wish* and I *hope* everything will come to me NEXT Yearrr..

***aZa aZa Fighting ***

用我小学程度的中文来表露我内心的话~

2010-11-17T19:24:00.000-08:00

家家有本难念的经…

有时候正当你看我很好时，其实我并不是你想象中的那样…

同样的比喻用在爱情的世界我个人觉得蛮恰当的~

两个人在一起可以有很多理由…

比如我喜欢的一切…爱上你的性格等等…

但往往两个人分开时只要一个理由就足够了~

那就是…我已经不爱你了…

很残忍吧？

若突然感到莫名的伤感时其实就是表示爱情快要结束了…

相见容易相处难…

做人要有分寸？其实有多少个人做得到？

不要怪我小气…其实我是有说不出的感想…

不要怪我不坦白…

其实就算我坦白了我的感受也不见得是个很好的结局…

不要怪我…既然爱了我就无怨无悔…

但是我的人其实很简单…我要的是简简单单的爱情…

不需要荣华富贵…我只谈情不谈钱…

但是若有一天你让我心碎了；很抱歉…不是表示我放弃了你…

而是表示我渐渐的想让你看看自己到底要走怎样的路！

有些话说了出来对大家的伤害真的很大~

请“三思”…

正所谓：“话从口出；病从口入…”

言语上偶尔带点小侮辱我都可以接受…

但是长时间的羞辱将会换回永久性的伤害！

女人永远有“第六感”在心里~

为什么我的手会莫名的搜到你们以前的旧照片？

你们的甜蜜显得我的多余！

天真的人为有天你会懂…

其实我的心里有好多话想说…

对你，我收起了我顽固的脾气…只因为我不想吵架~

也许开始得太快也会结束的更快…

我可以24小时思念你，可以很天真的只想陪在你身边~

我从来就没有后悔过当我把手中的机会都慢慢抛开…

但是，现在我可以告诉你…我会学会慢慢的把你放在一旁…

因为我知道自己爱得太多了~

最后悲剧发生时受伤的往往是自己…你还年轻嘛…

选择多！我呢？

别怪我做出的决定…

** 因为我是会累的 **

what a day! boringgg

2010-11-14T21:56:00.000-08:00

15th November 2010

时间过很快hor? so fast mid of November already! hmmm.. *boringgg*

Birthday coming soonnn.. Getting older liao.. Wanted to stay at 18 yrs old FOREVER..

=.=

I am going to Manila for Split Duty tonight!

been an ages didnt do this pattern! I miss Baclaran soooo Much..~ =D

Gonna grab few jeans over there as its cheaper than Brunei Alooooottttt..

awwww! wondering if d set of crew is going or not!!?? Hmmm.. @.@

What a dayyyy.. si behhhh siennn woiiii..

everyone is busy with studies & works! I'm d only one stay at home facing d wall..

awwwwwww... =X

Am just got back from Auckland last evening!

Unfortunately I get called up to operate Auckland on Friday morning..

My Dear cruise like crazy at highway to sent me for work..

He is sooo busy till not even hold my hand for 5 mins..!!

I feel sad when I get off from his car.. Miss him like crazy this few days!

Finally we met this morning for an hour to had our lunch together..

I REALLY Tooo much relying on him..

I don't feel like away from him toooo much..

Nothing much to demand.. Just like to stay beside him..

Wondering how I gonna spend my 3 weeks time when he is not around?

Sobsob! =(

我們不要放棄對方，好不好?

2010-10-23T09:30:00.000-07:00

经历的太多了，会麻木

分离多了，会习惯

换恋人多了，会比较

到最后

你不会再相信爱情

你会自暴自弃

你会行尸走肉

你会与你不爱的人结婚

就这样过一辈子......

不要认为后面还有更好的

因为现在拥有的就是最好的

不要认为还年轻可以晚些结婚

爱情是不等年龄的

不要因为距离太远而放弃

爱情可以和你一起坐火车的

不要因为对方不富裕而放弃

只要不是无能的人，勤劳可以让你们富裕的

不要因为父母反对而放弃

你会发现因为这个原因而反放弃的爱情，将是你一生的悔恨

其实对于爱情

越单纯越幸福

也许爱情是一部忧伤的童话，惟其遥远才真实..

放弃一个爱你的人并不痛苦

放弃一个你爱的人那才痛苦

若是有缘，时间空间都不是距离

若是无缘，总是相聚也无法合意

凡事不必太在意，更不需去强求，就让一切随缘

逃避不一定躲得过

面对不一定最难过

孤独不一定不快乐

得到不一定长久

失去不一定不再拥有

爱是一种享受，即使痛苦也会觉得幸福

爱是一种体会，即使心碎也会觉得甜蜜

爱是一种经历，即使破碎也会觉得美丽

不要因为寂寞而错爱，不要因为错爱而寂寞一生

伴侣不是结婚时发誓非你不娶或非你不嫁的那个人

而是发现你身上有许多缺点仍然选择你的那个人

伴侣不是生活中你爱吃黄瓜ta也爱吃黄瓜的那个人

而是你吃蛋清ta吃蛋黄的那个人

伴侣不是天黑了和你一起手挽手走进饭店的那个人

而是守在门口巴望你回来共进晚餐的那个人

伴侣不是和你大谈爱情，把“我爱你” 挂在嘴边的那个人

而是和你平淡的唠叨柴米油盐、锅碗瓢盆的那个人

在幸福的婚姻中，伴侣已不是一个具体的人

而是你和ta在几十年的岁月中沉淀下来的：

一份默契、一份温情、一份平淡、一份理解、一份宽容

爱ta就要让ta开心，这就是伴侣……

在古希腊传说中

情侣都将戒指套在对方的中指上

因为他们相信那儿有一根血管直通心脏

所以戒指的意思就是用心承诺！

但是人世间有多少爱能生死白头、又有多少的情可以天长地久?

所以你选择共度一生得未必是你最爱的，你最爱的未必能和你共度一生

多少的有情人走不进彼此的今生，只能苦苦地相约于来世

而多少的男男女女走过爱情走进婚姻却不会再珍惜彼此的付出

所以记得珍惜你爱的人

把每一个平淡的今天当成是彼此相依的最后一刻

好好握紧爱人的手，即使ta容颜已老、即使ta满面沧桑

那也是你记忆中永恒的温馨

别忘了守住对ta的承诺

别忘了牵住ta的手

一生一世一辈子……

人总是对自己拥有的东西不珍惜

直到不再拥有时才会加倍怀念

而在得知自己快失去自己所拥有的东西而又无能为力时

就寻死觅活地不肯放手

歇斯底里往往发生在这个时候

而对于生命的执著确实是到死才放手！

人生，没有那么简单……

幸福伴随悲伤

快乐总和痛苦相伴

这就是人生

今天总要过去

明天充满未知

自己活得快乐没有遗憾就好

知足长乐~

2010-10-22T19:01:00.000-07:00

真心的只要一个就够了…人要知足长乐~

是否感受得到我的"不快乐" ? 我搞不明白为什么总是喜欢专牛角尖…

总是爱胡思乱想…有的没的想到一大堆…

弄到自己这么痛苦~

以前我很喜欢我的工作~

每天期待着拉着行李工作去~什么原因弄到我那么讨厌做工？

现在的我，一想到工作就开始愁眉苦脸…

很不理想的想法一连串的冒了出来…

向几个朋友谈过，聊过~

个个都说是我想太多…如果一句活“不要想太多”就可以让自己开心起来的话该多好…

SECRET in My Heart ♥

2010-10-20T08:58:00.000-07:00

我~恋爱了…

告别了几个月的单身生活；我终于找到自己的幸福…

寻寻觅觅了这么久原来眼前的对我来说是最有意义的…并不是说我之前的都不好…

而是遇到了他，我真的不想换了…

老天爷，如果你是听得见我的话，麻烦你保佑我和他好吗？ =)

我的男人告诉我，

他发现我爱他比他爱我多…

他问我喜欢他什么？

老实说，我真的不晓得…感觉吧？

两个人在一起若没有感觉的话，简直是在浪费时间~

我无法不承认我真的很爱他…我不想失去我得到的一切一切…

他莫名的体贴和关怀让我体会到他不断在付出他的爱~

那不吝啬的爱让我得到无比的满足感和安全感…这段感情将会走很久很久…

我只希望他对我不会太快感到厌倦……嘻嘻…

很多朋友在好奇他长得怎样的~我们不曾合照…并不是我们不相爱…别误会~ =p

I can describe here & Just go ahead to IMAGINE how's my sweet heart look like..

他的肤色有点黝黑…想个Sunny Boy..^^

他的眼睛是单眼皮…但是当他用眼神来挑逗我的时候却很迷人…=）

他没有姚明高却有着180cm的身高…唯独他也是位篮球player…我的最爱！

他对女朋友有一定的要求，跟了他我并没有失去自由…相反的是我自己不要太多自由…工作的关系我们很难见面…因而有机会我们便死缠烂打~贴来贴去；跟前跟后…

♥ 2010。2010。2010 ♥

无法忘记这么特别的一天~他陪了我看爱情片~"EAT PRAY LOVE"（因为这家伙觉得这种戏确实没什么好看，但是最后他还是陪我了…*感动*）

我们两从一开始见面到回家的15分钟前都在吃…吃…吃！

这个害人精虽然说要养肥我；但我想没那么简单的咯~

我回答他说休想我肥时会嫌弃我~我才没那么傻呢！哈哈

这一天是他第一次向我说“我爱你”…

我不会忘记在20日10月2010年；晚上8时10分的那一深情的吻…

虽然当时他问了我很傻的问题，但是至少我们共同度过了那千载难逢的机会~

我对这段感情很有信心… 因为他给了我要的一切…

You Prove me that,我是幸福的…

谢谢大家这么久以来的关心，我现在过得很好！

HEBE的歌是寂寞寂寞就好；而我却认为你是我的唯一最好！ =p

You raise me up, therefore I'm in Love with You...

Our NEW Life begin with "L" & end with "E"..

I'll not LET YOU GO! I don't care how struggle our life is..

Please Remember We're a Part!

I Love You,Darling! =)

Sunday so called Auckland Day

2010-10-16T13:38:00.000-07:00

17th October 2010

Sunday

What a lovely Sunday! woke up ard 10 in d morning but slept at 5 in d morning! crap..

5hrs rest and gonna work more than 10hrs later! ishhh to the maxxx..=(

Seeee.. 3 days work again.. but better than 6days for my Dubai & London la..

kelian my darling!! sobsob...=p

Well, lucky me!

I have roll of Day Off frm Wednesday to Friday! Weeeee.. Happy-ing!

Can dating sudah.. hahahaha!

Simple plan today! online.. drama-ing then off to limteh with friend ard 2ish~

Come back and ready for work! dats it! lame hor? no choice.. sighhhh!!!

♥ 請記得..我是你女朋友～ (GREAT Article)

2010-10-10T22:50:00.000-07:00

因为我是你女朋友，所以我会对你有耍不完的小脾气。

因为我是你女朋友，所以我要你每晚跟我说晚安。

因为我是你女朋友，所以我要你每天都说爱我，当然我每天也在说爱你。

因为我是你女朋友，所以我在意你晚上回去是不是很晚，还有跟谁一起玩。

因为我是你女朋友，所以我要你记住我的生日。

因为我是你女朋友，所以我要你帮我拿东西。

因为我是你女朋友，所以我会在你为我作饭的时候从后紧紧拥住一身汗的你。

因为我是你女朋友，所以我会为你哭。

因为我是你女朋友，所以我会给你骂。

因为我是你女朋友，所以每当你夸我的时候我会会心一笑。

因为我是你女朋友，所以我要你乖乖喝水。

因为我是你女朋友，所以我会装作一副很可怜的样子说你不疼我。

因为我是你女朋友，所以我讨厌你去看别的女孩子。

因为我是你女朋友，所以我要你每天都快快乐乐的。

因为我是你女朋友，所以你什么都要听我的。

因为我是你女朋友，所以我总是要你把我吃不完的东西吃完。

因为我是你女朋友，所以我希望每天睁眼闭眼看到的都是你。

因为我是你女朋友，所以我喜欢跟你斗嘴。

因为我是你女朋友，所以我喜欢帮你按摩槌槌背。

因为我是你女朋友，所以我会不由自主地唱起歌。

因为我是你女朋友，所以我希望你健康、积极向上有斗志。

因为我是你女朋友，我会起很多可爱又笨笨的外号给你，有事没事的换着叫。

因为我是你女朋友，我会每天都跟你说我喜欢你，不为什么就亲亲你。

因为我是你女朋友，我会要你拉着我的手过马路，不会看来往的车辆，眼光只追随着你。

因为我是你女朋友，我会搂着你的手，像小孩一样要你背背。

因为我是你女朋友，我会亲自帮你挑衣服挑裤子，搭配你的套装，让每个女孩都羡慕我有个精神的男友。

因为我是你女朋友，我会骄傲的把手放进你的荷包里，希望握紧两只手的冬天过得不会太冷。

因为我是你女朋友，我会在你旁边看悲剧的文章，然后默默流泪，等你过来哄我，承诺我们不会那样。

因为我是你女朋友，我会在逛街的时候突然喊饿，拉着你走进旁边的蛋糕店，要我们最爱吃的毛毛虫和蛋挞，自己一口，喂你一口，我知道你喜欢也喜欢这甜蜜的味道。

因为我是你女朋友，我会做两人根本吃不完的菜，要你每样都吃些，提醒你注意营养，我喜欢看你吃东西的样子。

因为我是你女朋友，我会在你要起床的时间前半个小时睁开眼睛，然后摇醒你。我知道你会微微的开下眼睛然后抱抱我说再睡5分钟。

因为我是你女朋友，我会在得势的时候很嚣张，弱势的时候很撒娇，你总是觉得郁闷，为什么受委屈的明明是你，可喊冤的却是我。

因为我是你女朋友，所以我才会在石头剪刀布输了以后不洗碗。

因为我是你女朋友，我会让自己看上去很幸福，不用我说，别人都知道你是个绝世好男友。

因为我是你女朋友，我会在只你面前变得很笨，让你惊喜的发现原来在大家眼里机警伶俐的我也会犯只有你知道的白痴错误。

因为我是你的女朋友，我会鼓励你做你喜欢的事情，支持你做你喜欢的工作。我会一直陪着你，哪怕知道有天你会离开我，也不要你为了钱和责任而束缚了自己的梦想。

♥* October *♥

2010-10-10T19:00:00.000-07:00

Hello, October!

Pack schedule I have for the month! was doing BI423/424 To Singapore Last Night.. Reach Home ard 12ish but went out for supper with Wai Gor till 1ish jz finally get myself done with my bubble bath and so on..

101010, Sunday..what a Lovely date on earth~ I was at home for whole day while waiting for my work yesterday! Didn't manage to meet my man! awwww.. alot of people get marry on the day! *congratesss*

Well, I'm going to Auckland tonight! Will Come back on Thursday Morning! errrr.. 4days 3 night *again* Gonna miss everyone out there badly~

Wondering why d time fly so fast todayyy? Can it stop at the moment when I date with my man? hohoho..=p

NEW Look for 2010 =)

2010-09-23T17:37:00.000-07:00

>> Before 23rd September 2010 <<

>> After 23rd September 2010 <<

Yeeeehhhaaaa..

Here I am~ I curl my hair alrd yo~

Finally.. 2 yrs later I change my hair style again..

so how do u think?

I feel more feminine and bit matured..!

But no worries..

I Love this new hair~ Thanks for My Babe Hua Hua for the effort!

Love it toooo the maxxx..

Am going to color my hair to brown so dat my hair can look more volume~

anyway, im heading back to brunei in an hour time and off to miri later on!

My weekend plan is BWN-LBG-MYY-BWN-AKL

Stay tuned at my blog! Thankssss..=)

写给所有累了的女孩子

2010-09-22T10:00:00.000-07:00

真的只是有时候，莫名的心情不好，不想和任何人说话，只想一个人静静的发呆。

真的只是有时候，突然觉得心情烦躁，看什么都觉得不舒服，心里闷的发慌，拼命想寻找一个出口。

真的只是有时候，发现身边的人都不了解自己，面对着身边的人，突然觉得说不出话。真的只是有时候，感觉自己与世界格格不入，曾经一直坚持的东西一夜间面目全非。

真的只是有时候，突然很想逃离现在的生活，想不顾一切收拾自己简单的行李去流浪。

真的只是有时候，别人突然对你说，我觉得你变了，然后自己开始百感交集。

真的只是有时候，希望时间为自己停下，就这样和喜欢的人地老天荒。真的只是有时候，在自己脆弱的时候，想一个人躲起来，不愿别人看到自己的伤口。

真的只是有时候，突然很想哭，却难过的哭不出来。真的只是有时候，夜深人静的时候，突然觉得寂寞深入骨髓。

真的只是有时候，明明自己心里有很多话要说，却不知道怎样表达。

真的只是有时候，觉得自己其实一无所有，仿佛被世界抛弃。

真的只是有时候，明明自己身边很多朋友，却依然觉得孤单。

真的只是有时候，很想放纵自己，希望自己彻彻底底醉一次。

真的只是有时候，自己的梦想很多，却力不从心。

真的只是有时候，常常找不到事情，无聊的无所适从。

真的只是有时候，突然找不到自己，把自己丢了。

真的只是有时候，心里突然冒出一种厌倦的情绪，觉得自己很累很累。

真的只是有时候，看不到自己未来的样子，迷茫的不知所措。

真的只是有时候，发现自己一夜之间长大了。

真的只是有时候，听到一首老歌，就突然想起一个人。

真的只是有时候，别人误解了自己有口无心的一句话，心里郁闷的发慌。

真的只是有时候，常常在回忆里挣扎，有很多过去无法释怀。真的只是有时候，渴望别人的关怀，渴望一份简单的快乐。

真的只是有时候，看着时间一点点流逝，自己却无能为力..............

21th of the Month

2010-09-20T09:10:00.000-07:00

**第一个月**

为了不再让自己一次又一次的伤心与眷念…

所以我终于都想通了~

对于一直听我发牢骚的以为好朋友（称她为Miss DK）也许是件好事…

因为我终于有办法不再让自己不开心了！

现在学会把开心的时候尽情的享受…

过后便努力的存在心里…

往后便拿出来回味…

只因为自己只想把最好的都埋藏起来…不混入不好的在里头~

爱一个人不需要拥有…我不期望得到任何回报~

就让我在你身边做你一个特别的朋友好吗？

喜欢一个人是因为感觉对了… 感觉可以因为来得快而走得快…

我不知道我还可以做些什么~

毕竟勉强出来的永远都不会快乐！

我只认为，让它慢慢变淡…让一切成为美好的过去！

也许这就是所谓的…“有缘无份”

最后，只想对你说…

**这是一个不能说的秘密~而我也不会在他面前承认的秘密**

“我爱上了你~给我的感觉”

MY Heart will always be with you when we're not apart!

Please don't Ignore.. I do miss you sometimes! (",)

working & studying which one u prefer?

2010-09-19T11:48:00.000-07:00

WORKING & STUDYING

**which one would you prefer? **

Owh Lord! I'm going to start my study life soon..

If I able to make it! My part time degree is coming with me in few months time!

and YES, Thats the moment my Life started to be very tough!

I have to handle both parties carefully..

But now, I am thinking..

what if the examination time crash with my working hour?

am I able to submit my assessment on time?

will I finish my course on time?

and many many moreeeee... =(

I need to upgrade myself..

I wish that I able to study aboard!

I love the living & study environment at University! *craving for it!*

Can I make it after my Degree?

Dear God, if you can listen to me!

Please bless I can make more money to support myself..

如果..Perhaps!

2010-09-18T19:36:00.000-07:00

喜欢一个人的感觉是什么？爱上一个人的感觉是如何？

不需要天天见面，因为之前的那段回忆留在心里的才是最刻苦铭心的…

偶尔一句 “你好吗？”就足以证明“他/她”其实偶尔会想起你…

如果只要努力去爱一个人就会有结果，那么谁才能做到让对方感受到你的爱呢？

有时候还会问自己…

为什么人总是喜欢把自己心里的不满呈现在自己的脸上？

是习惯还是自然？有时候不明知道这种表现会影响到身边的人和气氛却很莫名的表露的出来…

人…就是这样的吗？

就因为我们什么都不是，我不该这么执著…

我知道，这我都知道…

让时间冲淡一切吧…

这一秒我可以说我喜欢你；下一秒也许我会说其实我什么都不要了！

保留如今的友谊；祝福彼此幸福与快乐…

凡是留一线; 日后好相见~

这样岂不是对彼此还公平吗？

2nd DUBAI via LONDON in my flying History~

2010-09-17T00:49:00.000-07:00

Ladies and Gentleman,

I'm at Dubai now.. where the local time is 12:00pm (GMT +4)

I get call up for this flight while I on Standby on the 13th September 2010!

What a Lame & Sad flight I have.. Nice Set of Crew to work but.. hmmmm~ *secret*

My plan has changed because of this set of flight! Grrrsssss..

MIRI Plan Gone..

Accompany MUMMY Plan Gone..

Gathering with Fren also Gone..

a New Fren passed away yday! OMG~

Im so suprised... Life is unpredictable.. and yet its damn short..

Anyway,

I cant wait to go back.. been drop my tears for couple days!

mummy been admitted at hospital.. I'm sad because I am not around when she need me!

Thanks GOD for making my wish come true(can online at Dubai) & send Angels to look after my Mummy.. and those friends and relatives who has visit my mum this few days! =)

I'll be with her till my next flight!

Hope everything go smoothly after this..

See ya.. (",)

一个女人最幸福的时刻

2010-09-13T00:05:00.000-07:00

一个女人最幸福的时刻，就是嫁对了老公，她纵容着你的习惯，爱着你的一切。 　　

一个女人最幸福的时刻，就是孩子单纯的信任和爱，她依赖着你的怀抱，灿烂着你的笑脸，让你的一切不快，在他轻柔童稚的单纯的智慧里升辉。　　

所以一个女人的幸福就是平凡生活中的真情、相伴相随的快乐、锁碎的真实生活。

　　
一个女人最幸福的时刻，就是朋友的真心相对，快乐开导，真诚帮助，在你最无助的时候，伸出的不只是温暖的手，还有物质上的雪中送炭，让心灰意冷，万念俱灰的你，又开始新的方向，摆脱困境，让你有重新开始的资金来源和快乐源泉。　　

所以一个女人的幸福就是在珍惜友情中感知人性的真、善、好。

　　
一个女人最幸福的时刻，就是你无论长多么大，在亲亲父母那里，依然是小孩子，你快乐地陶醉在父母为你准备的一切，安心地享受着他的唠唠叨叨，并且美味着品尝着父母做出特别的家宴，因为你出门在外多年，其实你的口味早已改变，但是亲亲父母还是记得你曾经最爱吃的一切东西，感动的泪水一次一次在心里流淌，静静地感知妈妈特有的爱的清香，溢满你整个生命历程，让你在咂摸中幸福。

　　
所以一个女人的幸福就是父母依然活在这个世上，让你感觉被人永远疼的温暖的感觉，心头暖的爱意让你有勇气坚持到最后的一刻。 　　

一个女人最幸福的时刻，就是你自己让自己快乐，

做一个开心的人，既便不开心，也让自己微笑，

同时把这份快乐感染给爱你和你爱的人，让他们因你而骄傲和幸福，快乐和满足。

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Charlene's Diary ♥

Destination - Maldives Island

Self-Portrait 2012

想念一个人的滋味

2012年立春的时间

HOW TO ORGANIZE YOUR FOOTWEAR

初七 ~ 人日的来源

My Melody & Kuromi

今年龙年为什么有年30晚？

JOBLESS Life

Advance Birthday Present 2011

Diary of 11th November 2011

Its all about ⓂⓄⓃⒺⓎ..~

Agoda (www.agoda.com)

Life & Destiny, what do you think will come first?

也许还有也许…

Veet In-Shower Removal Cream

银色情人节（Silver Day）

简简单单。快快乐乐

活在当下~

Thursday! Yiiipiiieee..

他~就是我的 Mr Right!

一个人生活…

Think positively ; Cheer with smile!

23rd Feb 2011

Life is what we called DESTINY =)

London-Feb of Twenty-11

Valentine Day

Don't let love be only a MEMORY..

无言…

27th Jan, twenty eleven Part II

Just For Della Ding-丁噹的精选 ♥♥

27th Jan, twenty eleven (insomnia + emo)

26th Jan, twenty eleven

突然好想你…

“喜”…“怒”…“哀”…“乐”

女朋友和老婆的分别

January, twenty-eleven

Monday Blueeeee..=p

BB Cream, Part II

14 Jan 2011

感情的东西真的很化学哦！

random post! just bcz im too BORING!

Lofve You, my dear~

..:::♥ HaNdiCraFT *Manicure & Pedicure*

heart pain!

a LOVE Letter

BB Cream

a bLog post with less than 50 words!

NEW Look for 2010 Part II

My aDvance B'day Present ♥

用我小学程度的中文来表露我内心的话~

what a day! *boringgg*

我們不要放棄對方，好不好?

知足长乐~

SECRET in My Heart ♥

Sunday so called Auckland Day

♥ 請記得..我是你女朋友～ (GREAT Article)

♥* October *♥

NEW Look for 2010 =)

写给所有累了的女孩子

21th of the Month

working & studying *which one u prefer?*

如果..Perhaps!

2nd DUBAI via LONDON in my flying History~

一个女人最幸福的时刻

..:::♥ HaNdiCraFT Manicure & Pedicure

what a day! boringgg

working & studying which one u prefer?